Extended 4tran Survey (2025.2)
Page 6 - Relationships
Relationships
Dating Preferences
Open to Dating
I wasn't sure whether to put the multiselect question or the single select question first, but I decided to go with the multiselect first since its the least painful.
Interestingly, straight trans men are slightly more likely to be open to dating cis women than trans women. While for bi trans men, they are much more likely to be open to dating trans women over cis women. Gay trans men are pretty evenly open towards cis and trans men (though a good chunk are open to dating trans women and even cis women?).
Straight trans women are generally a lot more open to dating cis men than they are to trans men, when compared to vice versa for straight trans men. Bi trans women are most open to dating other trans women (bi trans men were most open to dating trans women as well).
Most Preferred
This is where things get a bit more divisive.
Straight trans men are the only group that prefer cis women over trans women, though not by a large margin. Bi and asexual trans men are generally T4T, preferring trans men over cis men, and trans women over cis women.
Gay trans men are the mostly likely to prefer cis men over trans men when compared to the other groups, though as a group they still overall slightly prefer trans men over cis men. Trans men in general seem to prefer trans men over cis men.
Reminder that you can enable/disable specific genders in the legend below to better understand the data.
While straight/bi trans women are almost equally as open to dating trans men, straight/bi trans women drastically prefer cis men over trans men. It is interesting how unlike bi trans men (who prefer trans women and trans men over their cis counterparts), bi trans women prefer cis men over trans men while also preferring trans women over cis women.
No idea why 1 transbian preferred trans men the most, and 2 transbians preferred cis men the most.
Current Partner
The general trends are similar to the most preferred dating, however there are a lot more people dating cis men. Despite trans men mostly preferring trans men, they are more likely to be dating a cis man over a trans man.
Yeah this is even more brutal than the most preferred chart, 77% of straight trans women are dating cis men. What's interesting is the gays and lesbians, gay trans men are more likely to be dating cis men however lesbian trans women are overwhelmingly more likely to be dating other trans women.
Relationship Status
We're all single I guess. Technically this question came before the current partner question, but I wanted to move that to just under the most preferred gender charts to see how they compare.
Polyamory
Seems to be similar rates throughout the genders
Number of Partners
At this point, there are so many outliers this is like a 1 dimensional scatter plot or something.
Virginity
This one surprised me tbh, I expected women to be virgins (expectations maybe skewed by my own life).
The next 2 charts are of the people who identified as virgins.
These are so similar to each other than any differences are probably just statistical whatever.
Men aren't doing too well, though not by a huge margin.